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4 Defining Dynamics of Narcissistic Relationships
New research from the perspective of relatives and romantic partners sheds light on common problems in relationships involving pathologically narcissistic people.
Narcissism is a source of ever-increasing attention because of the suffering and helplessness that arise routinely in relationships where pathological self-interest and personal vulnerability dominates. These traits are typically in our blind spots and so are hard to change even when the need for change is recognized and desired.
Narcissism isn’t all bad, though, and in fact healthy narcissism is key to well-being. It is through having a good sense of self 1that we develop personal capacities for self-regard and the pursuit of life goals. It is through having a good sense of self that we learn to recognize situations which may not be healthy for us and to identify and pursue those that are more likely to work out well for all involved, grounded in good self-relationship.
Hazardous to your health?
Those in relationships with people with pathological narcissism exhibit reduced well-being, chronic feelings of low self-esteem, stress, loneliness, guilt, and an array of day-to-day worries about the…
